Q: Needy Women

[precious007]

Ya know, I just knew PP would say that :-) lol

lmao

:^)

[Ansel]

Follow your heart Precious. Let conscience be your guide...

[precious007]

Follow your heart Precious. Let conscience be your guide...

+1

Tx Ansel good advice

[Snusdog]

Man Precious............they are going to find you ass in a basement shoved in a blue..............er..............pink barrel.

I would get out now...............I also would tell her why you are bailing as well...........that would be a kind thing to do………….point out her good qualities………..her strengths………and then address this issue and how it is robing her of all that is positive about her.

In the end (and regardless of the reason) it sounds like she has no sense of self............and until she does any real relationship will be problematic

Without trust and respect for another’s need of space there is no possibility for a relationship (that is not an unhealthy codependency).

She needs to find her own sense of worth before she can take on the worth of another

Just my 2 cents

[precious007]

Man Precious............they are going to find you ass in a basement shoved in a blue..............er..............pink barrel.

I would get out now...............I also would tell her why you are bailing as well...........that would be a kind thing to do………….point out her good qualities………..her strengths………and then address this issue and how it is robing her of all that is positive about her.

In the end (and regardless of the reason) it sounds like she has no sense of self............and until she does any real relationship will be problematic

Without trust and respect for another’s need of space there is no possibility for a relationship (that is not an unhealthy codependency).

She needs to find her own sense of worth before she can take on the worth of another

Just my 2 cents

hey dog

I tried to explain it to her but she's denying ...

she's always posing in that innocent gal so I'm only left to test a little more and see if it's really worth my time ;-)

especially that she'll soon turn 40 and I'll be only 30 - but lets just say age isn't really the problem here

she is that type of person that would spend 24/7 with a guy and basically get A LOT of attention when I am not that type at all .... I understand what having fun/feeling good together means but there you nailed it dog... we all need some space....it's not like I felt in love and I have to be stuck to her all day long ;-) lol

[Frosted]

yeah............................but um....................10 times a night you say?
I don't suppose....................you could.......um....................................lend me her?

[kevs]

yeah............................but um....................10 times a night you say?
I don't suppose....................you could.......um....................................lend me her?

Your writing style seems just like Snusdog's. You've been doggystyled!

[Frosted]

Your writing style seems just like Snusdog's. You've been doggystyled!

Just tentatively probing.

[Mayhart]

dude, like, dude, ERM ... *trouble*

Either something changes (her) or there is nothing else to do but to gtfo ... Will only get worse in time. I mean, that cant be good for your mental health, nor hers... if you tell her there are no reasons to be insecure and to chill a bit and she still rages like the world is about to end then smtg is seriously wrong with her.
I need my own space/time to be alone and with other people... and if im getting questioned all the time about wtf im doing and whys and whos, then the fuse is lit and its just a matter of time until the relationship derails (unless she changes)

Trust is #1

[devilock76]

I am not that secure emotionally either but I learned to be a bit more understanding and more mature in the relationship - I am not that one night stand guy I've been always looking for that "ONE" that I would feel confortable with and that I could share my life with.

The biggest disapointment in my life was after a 10 year relationship (we loved each other like mad) annd it ended up to be the worst night mare so I had lots to learn from it and from another couple dozens of relationships with other gals.

I would never guess that from someone postin for relationship help on a tobacco forum. That was sarcsm. Look, you came here I think knowing you can't deal with this loon, but maybe the tail is that good, or the other options look slim, you were just hopping there would be sm dr phil type pussy give you a to do list to fix shit. I don't work.

My advice, hookers are cheaper, and you don't pay for them to stay, you pay for them to leave.

Our singer recently broke up with a piece of work, she insited on taking the tv back she bought him for xmas. He gave it back and then told m the story later, i said to him that as a married man that if all it costs for you to get rid of a woman is a tv, give her f'in two of them!

Ken

[Monkey]

If all it costs for you to get rid of a woman is a tv, give her f'in two of them.
Ken

Wise words indeed.

My point of view:

I am too damn old to try and change for you, and I am too damn busy to try and change you.

The moral of the story is if you don't want to live with the way someone is, don't make them an important part of your life. This isn't about her, it is about you. What do you want.

Ten times?!?! In one night?

**** that I need my beauty rest.

Twice a week and a bj on Sunday is good for me.

YMMV.

Good luck, and don't think with your dick.

[precious007]

I would never guess that from someone postin for relationship help on a tobacco forum. That was sarcsm. Look, you came here I think knowing you can't deal with this loon, but maybe the tail is that good, or the other options look slim, you were just hopping there would be sm dr phil type pussy give you a to do list to fix shit. I don't work.

My advice, hookers are cheaper, and you don't pay for them to stay, you pay for them to leave.

Our singer recently broke up with a piece of work, she insited on taking the tv back she bought him for xmas. He gave it back and then told m the story later, i said to him that as a married man that if all it costs for you to get rid of a woman is a tv, give her f'in two of them!

Ken

hookers aren't cheaper, that I can assure and for one reason going to hookers too often isn't good either

I can easily get rid of her, no problem, the obvious question I had is how to get her to cool down a bit, it's making me anxious with all the phone calls and I told her like 10 times

[GODOFSNUS]

THE MORE YOU GIVE EM.... -THE LESS YOU GET!!!!!!!

[precious007]

THE MORE YOU GIVE EM.... -THE LESS YOU GET!!!!!!!

noticed that buddy lol ;-)

[devilock76]

hookers aren't cheaper, that I can assure and for one reason going to hookers too often isn't good either

I can easily get rid of her, no problem, the obvious question I had is how to get her to cool down a bit, it's making me anxious with all the phone calls and I told her like 10 times

Cost of dinner and a movie, not far off per night

Plus divorce is much more expenive than penicillan.

Ken